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ANY AND ALL VANCOUVERITES.
REBLOG THIS, SPREAD THE WORD.
WE WANT THESE PEOPLE TO FACE THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR ACTIONS.
It’s just a few things that have been on my mind lately. Since joining Tumblr I’ve seen some posts that over romanticized relationships between men and women.
One post I saw said something along the lines of “I want a guy friend who will always be there for me and will take care of me and go beat up all the guys that cheat on me and hug me while I cry and will tell me that I’m beautiful and pick me up again while I go out with another guy who’s going to break my heart.”
- So in other words you want a guy friend who probably loves you but will never say anything because he knows you’ll never say yes to him, but for some reason he holds out hope that maybe one day you’ll change your mind. Years pass and he’s spent his whole time picking you up while his life crumbles all on the hope that he might have a chance to be with you.
Another Post I saw was “When a girl says, I’m Done, it really means fight for me.”
- Sometimes a guy gets tired of fighting for a girl because it seems like that’s all he’s ever going to do, fight for you.
This one is for both sexes. I see all the time stories of guys or girls getting jealous of their respective partners hanging out with people of the opposite sex. Jealous to the point of hating themselves, their partner, life, and ruining what was probably a good relationship over jealousy. A little jealousy never hurt anyone, you have to let your partner live their life. Learn to trust each other more and your life, and relationship will go along smoothly and happily. I’m not saying let your partner sluz it up and cheat on you, I’m saying let them hang out with people of the other sex, just make sure it’s KNOWN by them, and everyone else, that you are together.
This is also for both sexes. When you fight, don’t treat the fight like it’s going to ruin your relationship. It’s just a fight, all couples go through it, one of you, whether you are right or wrong, just needs to apologize. There is such a thing as sore winner, and winning, isn’t always the best thing to do. So in an argument, don’t try to win, you’ll just feel like
shitafterwards, try to resolve it without being an ass.Guys, “your girl” isn’t your property, you don’t own her, and no, she doesn’t own you. Don’t treat each other like you do.
Nobody is perfect, so don’t make an issue you have, your partner has, or any problem that you have together, a bigger issue than it really is. Just be happy together!
If you do think that something is going on, you’re cheating, they’re cheating, you think they’re cheating, you aren’t talking as much, they aren’t talking as much, you aren’t interested, they aren’t interested, you’re bored, they’re bored, etc., TELL THEM. Bring it up, nothing is ever solved by sitting around on it, if you’re having a problem, or you think there is a problem, Talk To Each Other About It.
You aren’t the center of the universe, don’t get mad if someone doesn’t reply to a text or a voicemail immediately. There might be something that they have to take care of first, don’t automatically assume that they are having an affair, don’t assume they don’t care about you, don’t assume they are ignoring you. Just stop assuming. Assumptions are the leading cause of breakups. More people break up over imagined problems than people who break up for “legitimate” reasons.
I’m sure there is more I wanted to say, but I think this sums up my thoughts nicely.
Someone had to do it….Hnggg….
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